Movimiento número uno

Este es un proyecto, un comienzo. Desde hoy y hasta que tú te gradúes de la high school, te voy a escribir algo cada día. Tengo como meta el poder entregarte algo –un libro, unas canciones, mi corazón escrito en páginas, mis palabras estirándose hacia sabiduría– en ese día de tu graduación.

A veces se me hace que no te he dado mucho. No creo, por ejemplo, que podrías leer estas palabras. Es un misterio y algo que nunca comprenderé cómo eres una copia de mi y, sin embargo, no eres nada parecido a mi. Unos días terminas mis frases; otros días nos miramos como si fuéramos extranjeros.

Pero esto sí que es la verdad: siempre quiero seguir conociéndote. Me importas. Lo que tú pienses, sientas, vivas, imagines… todo esto quiero saber. En mi vida antes de que tú llegaras, jamás imaginé un amor como él que te tengo y para el cual tengo pocas palabras.

Compartiendo lo que “sé” contigo, pues, es una de las formas que tengo de demostrarte el amor que te tengo. Pero ojalá todo esto nunca sea un monólogo, porque si sí, pues, sería una verdadera tragedia.

Happiness is a state
of mind not a state
of being nor a state
of affairs. What I mean

is happiness means
something only when
you’re not reaching toward it
but instead reaching towards making

love happen in the world, making
justice live in our bodies, stating
truths in kind-hearted ways, minding
the footprints you leave in your wake.

You know you will wake up happy
when you believe you have a place
in this world and that it needs you like I need you
because you love it like I love you
and our love is not a state it is a universe.


honk your horn

My car’s wheels hug the highway as we curl towards town;
this is where we slow down, where fields dwindle
and houses grow. The day wraps sun around me and, after
a long winter, my batteries charge.

On that cross street, you know, the one right outside of town,
a minivan idles and a boy hangs out from a side window like a centaur.
From this far away I can still see his grin
and he pumps his arm in the air, the universal–isn’t it?–sign to honk your horn.

My brothers and I walk over a highway bridge every day.
We leave early enough so that we can stop. Drop our backpacks.
We lean over the railing. Raise our arms.
Pump them with glee.
Grins on our faces, we wait for trucks to honk.

There is always at least one trumpeting call amid the blur
of cars and trucks hurtling toward somewhere not here.

Every time we hear that sound, relief and gratitude course
through our nerves and we scream our excitement.

My car leans; I hit the horn; the boy grins wider;
my car volleys on. I don’t think he could see me grin and, maybe,
probably, I could not truly see his grin. But he knows the call.
I know the response. The joy just happens.

Longue Durée of Goodbyes

April 16 2017

To those of you who celebrate Easter, happy Easter! Today is the end of my Lenten practice of writing something creative–usually a poem–each day. I discovered that I was capable (and enjoyed) most of it. Saturdays/weekends were the most fraught days, since often I was getting home too late to have much headspace for words. This insight–that I most enjoy playing with language in the mornings–is not terribly novel for me. More worth noting was that I could still, on most evenings, enjoy the writing practice. So my allergy to writing in the evenings turns out to be mostly a habit, not a fact.

I am finding myself asking now, here, at the end of Lent, what it means to celebrate Easter within a secular framework. Throughout Lent I thought about and worked on sacrifice and commitment as practices of meditation or reflection. But Easter shouldn’t be, I think, a leave-taking of all of that. To the degree that Easter and spring arrive hand-in-hand, I feel like Easter should be, for me, about honoring my practices, my failures, my attempts and moving forward into renewal.

Longue Durée of Goodbyes

On the plane we sit waiting for takeoff.

He’ll be leaving soon, all on his own. This trip
is one domino in what will be a short chain
of dominos, one toppling the other
until the last one tumbles
and he leaves.

Parenting is the longue durée of goodbyes.

I can remember, through blurry photographs,
a time when he never left my side when he slept
on my chest when he curled into my ribs
when he ran to me after missing me
for five minutes.

Year by year I know less about him,
his smile like the Cheshire cat’s.
I ask him questions exactly like those
that my parents asked me. He answers
exactly as I did, mocking my need
to know and building his brick wall.

When he offers me tidbits of information,
these glimpses of the man-in-the-making,
I try to be restrained. Don’t scare him with my
need to know, my motherly voraciousness, my
expectation that he still be five with no boundaries
that keep me out; I tell myself don’t say a word. Listen.

There are windows in his brick wall, the way
he teaches me his cultural vocabulary or smiles
when we joke around and the way we sing
together on the street and he forgets to be embarrassed
as his bass and my soprano call and respond and soar.

On the plane, I extend my hand for the in-flight magazine.
I intend to sudoku until we take off. He keeps
the magazine, turns to the crossword puzzle, takes my pencil,
and starts to solve it. He asks me about a clue. I lean in
and we fill in the blanks together.

Day 44 – no poem, just thoughts

April 13 2017

I’m staying with a friend in Jackson Heights while I attend a conference in NYC. My friend’s neighborhood is overstimulating me in all the awesome ways: overhearing conversations in lots of languages; all sorts of ethnic and racial diversity; fruit on display that I’ve never seen before; taxis zipping into small spaces; horns honking; people talking on the street in small and large groups; people selling stuff on the street.

Of course, now, at the end of the day, I’m exhausted. This prose will just have to count as my writing of the day. I’ll try to process the sights sounds smells touches excitement more for tomorrow.


Portraits of silence

[Close up in the arb. Lichen?]

April 11 2017

Portraits of silence


Be quiet. Sit still.
Don’t make a fuss.
Keep your hands to yourself.
Follow along.


Quiet now. Sit still.
Breathe deeply in
and out and feel the breath
rush through your limbs.


Listen hard, quiet your eyes,
Withhold judgement,
extend faith. Offer your hands
in communion.


Simmer and steam,
put the lid on the pot and hold
on to your soul. Haul in the flags and fury
and wait another day.


Raise your eyebrows. Wait out
the bubble and noise of crowds.
Don’t make a fuss; hold your hands high
and speak on it.

Found poetry

April 10 2017

It’s my brother’s birthday AND Sibling Appreciation day! What a wacky convergence! Seems like a great day for found (maybe slightly massaged) poetry. Today’s comes from a culling of the Carletonian Weekly security blotter of April 7 2017.

No Fire

Burnt toast caused the fire
alarm. No fire.

Burnt food caused the fire alarm
to go off in a hall
way. No fire.

Bacon burnt well leads to alarm:
no fire, no bacon.

No fire, no burnt food.

Just curiosity about the button
on the fire

Now we know. All alarm,
no fire.